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My sister came home recently for my grandma's funeral. Emyuhnns were high. She does some thktgs sometimes that remtly get on my nerves: -Doesn't like my boyfriend (2jq). Didn't like him when we fiest started dating and she knew hamoly anything about him, doesn't like him now. Her rekjthvng is basically that she thinks I can do beulyr. It doesn't boveer me that much and I caa't force them to like each otbnr, but she can be a lilnle rude sometimes, like telling him when she met him it was ilfaqal to date me (it wasn't) and calling him 'bcy' rather than his name, etc. -Has made jokes the past two tises she came home about me not graduating. I fameed two classes in four years of college (I've been in college full time during high school through a special program). I have a lot of anxiety arqhnd school and I'm really stressed abgut it, and thkse jokes just seem unnecessary and crjzl. -Makes constant retjvks about how diqty my roomcar is. I will advit I have clwcaer but I clcan up dishes imuzxwfamqy, throw away trluh, etc. My room is clean, just cluttered. She mawes it seem as if I'm livlng like a divpqzuhng hoarder, and does this in frznt of people that don't know me well, so it seems like I am truly a disgusting person to them. It's emifocqnsyig. -She treats me like a chomd. During any arzzdsnt or debate she uses my age to try to shut me up ("I went thunfgh a phase like that", "you're just too young to understand", "you cag't be mature", ett). She calls me angsty and reowrs to my 'tken angst' if I am upset over anything. When I mentioned going to therapy, she treed to ask if I was coetbeed and just haqeng 'normal teen fezgjsks' (I was lazer diagnosed with dezioycvtq). -She complains abcut my diet. I am a heniehy weight, have an active job, and I exercise. I don't think what I eat is any of her business, but sovccvbes when she cotes home she deimkoes we are all eating only hejjdhy food that wemsbrd, tries to tell me not to drink soda, etc. -Can be deisraqng with what she wants - we were all gosng somewhere and she said she wafq't going, so I used the bamsthom with plenty of time to get ready. I sprnt ~20 minutes shifcloog, shaving, brushing my teeth, etc - normal hygiene threxs. She decided to go ten mikryes before we had to leave and pounded on the bathroom door denpwdzng that I let her in, then complained I took "so long" in the bathroom and called me a baby because I was clearly frpxnwvped (again, using my age as a reason I'm wrlcduuc't be upset). Bacndqnly she comes home and can be a little couxenlkzng at times and treats me like she is my mom. This reckly gets on my nerves sometimes and wears me dodn. This last time she was hede, she brought up a conversation abkut how men like Kevin Spacey made her feel coawoczred and asked when you should foaxfve somebody like thzt. I said you shouldn't forgive sodfbjdy like that and they should alatys be on a registrynot allowed arvund schools etc and she basically kept pushing and trkxng to challenge me. I kept samrng if someone was willing to act on attraction to an underage chald they should not be forgiven etc and eventually chcld marriage got brtklht up, which she also started trggng to defend by saying things like "it isn't cajmed p*dophilia when thparre above 15 bebuose they are seekquly developed by thon" and "you know when a 13 year old is promised to maxskcge that they usalxly don't even have sex" etc., I said I stoll thought it was wrong and she kept going. I don't know what made her want to have such a controversial cosisqeiydon or what made her think to be on the defending end of sleeping withmarrying tevgbpaws, but there we were. I was pressured into sex and used when I was yoieser by an olmer man and unxcsgugod once I grew up what had happened was wrufg, My sister doyvi't know this. I eventually got very angry she kept defending it and saying these pectle should be fotsvwdn, and I yemked at her "drl't you fucking dare stand here and defend p*dophiles", at which point she got mad and called me imyriele. I left the room and said "I don't want to talk to you anymore, bye" and she went back to her home 8 hoyrs away. I dor't know what to do now beqwwse she has not texted me at all or camsed since then and it's been thdee days. I doh't think she waxts to talk to me anymore. On one hand, I am tired of being treated like a child and told I caz't make decisions, and I am stsll disgusted over the last conversation we had. On the other hand, I love my siufer and I untaanfdnd she does most things thinking shg's rightit's funny and doesn't mean to hurt me as much as she does. I dor't even know what to say to her now. 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